Communication is one of the most important parts of a great photography experience. Your photographers want to make sure your day runs as smoothly as possible, and that means sharing key information in advance. When we know the details that matter most to you, we can focus on capturing your story beautifully and authentically. Here are six things to tell your wedding photographer before your wedding day.

1. Share Important Names and Relationships

Give your photographer a list of the most important people involved in your wedding day. This includes immediate family, wedding party members, and anyone with a special role. Having names and faces helps us keep track of who matters most and ensures no one important is missed in your photos.

Why Names Make a Difference

You can also include vendor contact names if we will be coordinating with them throughout the day. For example, if your florist or planner at The Roundhouse has a specific contact person, we will want to know that ahead of time. It is also helpful to attach reference photos in a shared document or email. That extra bit of preparation goes a long way toward helping us navigate your day efficiently.

2. Mention Any Sensitive Relationships or Family Dynamics

Every family is different, and your photographer should be aware of any situations that could affect group photos. If there are divorced parents who prefer not to be photographed together, or relatives who may have strained relationships, let us know privately in advance. We can plan posing and transitions accordingly to keep everyone comfortable.

How This Helps on the Wedding Day

Having this context helps avoid any uncomfortable moments or missteps during portraits. For example, if a parent tends to take over or give direction, we can gently guide the situation to keep things flowing smoothly. Our goal is to create a calm, enjoyable environment so everyone feels relaxed in front of the camera.

3. Provide a List of Must-Have Shots

Every couple has unique priorities. Maybe you want to make sure we capture a particular family heirloom, a sentimental first look, or the mountain views behind your ceremony. Sharing your must-have shots helps ensure that what matters most to you is covered.

Balancing Your List with a Documentary Approach

We always capture the full story of your day as it unfolds naturally. However, giving us a short list of the top five to ten moments or details you absolutely want photographed ensures nothing gets missed. For instance, if you have a special champagne toast planned at The Garrison or a private vow exchange at Boscobel House & Gardens, we can schedule time for those moments in your timeline.

4. Share Your Full Wedding Day Timeline

The more we know about your wedding schedule, the smoother the day will go. Provide a detailed timeline including ceremony start times, photo windows, addresses, and key contacts. If you have a planner or day-of coordinator, share their information as well so we can coordinate logistics directly.

Why Timelines Are So Important

Knowing your full schedule helps us prepare for lighting changes, travel time, and key events. For example, if you are getting ready at Hudson House River Inn and then moving to The Yard Beacon for portraits, we can plan the timing precisely. Include backup contacts such as the maid of honor or best man in case we need quick communication during the day.

5. Give Parking and Transportation Information

This detail is often overlooked but makes a big difference for your photography team. Let us know where we can park and if there are any restrictions or valet options at your venue. Many photographers carry extra gear in their cars and prefer to park nearby for quick access.

Examples for Hudson Valley Venues

Some Hudson Valley venues, such as The Hill at Hudson or Mount Gulian Historic Site, have limited parking or multiple access points. If your venue has special instructions, share them early. The smoother our arrival, the more time we can spend focusing on what really matters — your photos.

6. Tell Your Photographer About Any Lighting Situations

Lighting affects everything about your wedding photos. If your ceremony is indoors or your reception will take place after dark, mention that to your photographer in advance. The more we know, the better we can prepare our lighting setup and equipment.

Preparing for Different Lighting Environments

Some venues like The Roundhouse offer bright natural light during the day, while others may have more intimate, dim lighting in the evening. If your DJ plans to use colorful uplighting or you are having a candlelit dinner, those details matter too. Knowing what to expect helps us plan how to balance ambient and artificial light to create flattering, beautiful images.

Why Preparation Matters So Much

The more we know before your wedding day, the more seamlessly we can work. When details are clear, you can relax and focus on the joy of the moment. Every bit of communication helps us tell your story in the most meaningful and stress-free way possible.

How Megan and Kenneth Prepare for Each Couple

We take preparation seriously because it allows us to focus on connection, not logistics. Our process starts with listening to your story and understanding your priorities. Whether your celebration is at Blooming Hill Farm, Storm King Art Center, or an intimate backyard ceremony, our goal is to make sure your wedding day feels effortless and fully documented from start to finish.